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A New Christmas To Look Forward To

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By SANDRA KICKLIGHTER Guest Column

The Tampa Tribune

Published: December 5, 2008

Sept. 11, 2001 brought new awareness into my life. It may have been seven years ago but I still remember it like yesterday. I used to get upset over little things, people moving too slow, phone ringing while I'm on the computer, things like that. It's funny, after that day I realized how insignificant those things were.

I am now aware of my neighbors and the little things they did that I just took for granted. A cheery hello whenever we see each other, a small talk over coffee, checking on us when we are ill, watching out for each others' home when we know they are not there. Little gifts exchanged for no reason at all. Little things when added up mean a lot to me today.

Awareness of strangers, the way they smile when you make eye contact, the way they waved at you from their car because you were proudly flying the American flag as they were; someone taking the time to ask if you needed help; people stopping in the stores while you are shopping to say hello, and you do not know them; little things, again.

A new awareness of the world I live in, new appreciation for the beauty God provided for us to enjoy every day. The peaceful feeling I get when I sit on the patio and watch the clouds pass over head while the birds fly freely in the sky; the grass seems greener than before, while the vibrant hues of the flowers sparkle in the morning mist. Even the fog creeping over the ground brings me happiness. Little things, I admit.

An awareness of our friends who are always there when you need them or just when you want to get together; always willing to talk on the phone if you can't get together; they are my sounding board when I write, and I could not do with out them. I hope they know that I will always be there for them; a small thing, but still a gift given freely.

A new awareness of my family that is scattered around in different states. I want to hold them close to me, and keep them by my side. Yet, I know that is impossible for they have their own lives to live. Instead, I will let them know each time I get a chance, how much I love them. The greatest gift of a mother is her children, whether biological or inherited, I love them all.

My husband who is No. 1 on my list, I would be lost without him; he is my everything and I am a better person because of him. His patience, his love, his understanding is another gift that I will treasure.

Last of all, the awareness of the thousands of families who will not be together this Christmas; our soldiers who are still overseas, may they know we remember the sacrifices they have made and are still making each year since 9-11 and how much we at home appreciate, honor and love them.

My new awareness of this Christmas season, I will thank God for all his gifts; some little, some larger than life. I have a lot to be thankful for this Christmas. If you look around our world I am sure you will agree with me. Now, looking back, I see I have already received my gifts.

Merry Christmas!

Sandra Kicklighter lives in Sebring.

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